“I hate your guts!!!!
Thus read the note. It was simple, to the point and very good communication. Now hopefully the man, the recipient of this love note, has a clue as to why Sally feels so much angst. Let us pray.
All relationships that find themselves in dire straits arrive there due to, in large or in small part, lousy communication. Infatuation, sexual tension, new love, puppy love or rekindled affection are momentary and devoid of meaningful conversation. It will be the conversation, the uncomfortable questions, the honest answers and the body language that will tell the tale that “love” isn’t verbalizing.